I have been reading in 1 Chronicles. I am amazed at the attention to music! In 1 Chronicles 15, David ordered the Levite leaders to appoint a choir of Levites who were singers and musicians to sing joyful songs to accompaniment of harps, lyres, and cymbals. Verse 28 states: So all Israel brought up the Ark of the Lord's Covenant with shouts of joy, the blowing of rams' horns and trumpets, the crashing of cymbals, and loud playing on harps and lyres. WOW! This is so cool the important role of music in such a joyous and important event in the history of God's People.
After about 25 years of singing in the Adult Chancel Choir of Vidalia First United Methodist Church, I have taken an eleven-year absence. Lord willing, this Sunday, I will rejoin the Choir. I am so looking forward to it. The choir has been a place of God ministering to me personally, while using me to minister to others. I am one of those music people who is not complete without music. I love Contemporary Christian music and Classic Rock music. I praise God for the era I have lived in. I grew up in the 70s and 80s with the best rock ever! God blessed me with a love for Contemporary Christian music from the late 70s until today. I have seen over 100 Christian artists in concert. God has blessed me with Christian albums, 8-tracks, cassettes, and phone downloads! A day without music is quite the weird day.
I continue to have a dream of being a Contemporary Christian Radio DJ. Prayers appreciated!
Psalm 150 is evidence that God is the author of Rock Music for His glory!
1. Praise the Lord! Praise God in His sanctuary; praise Him in his mighty heaven!
2. Praise Him for His mighty works; praise His unequaled greatness!
3. Praise Him with a blast of the ram's horn; praise Him with the lyre and harp!
4. Praise Him with tambourine and dancing; praise Him with strings and flutes!
5. Praise Him with a clash of cymbals; praise Him with loud clanging cymbals!
6. Let everything that breathes sing praises to the Lord! Praise the Lord!
Tuesday, May 30, 2017
Friday, May 26, 2017
The Fascinating World of the Johnson O Connor Research Foundation!
The Johnson O Connor Research Foundation began in 1922. There are currently eleven cities (including Atlanta) in the U.S. used as testing cites. According to their website: "The Johnson O Connor Research Foundation is a nonprofit scientific research and educational organization with two primary commitments: to study human abilities and to provide people with a knowledge of their aptitudes that will help them derive more satisfaction from their lives by discovering their natural potential."
I was recently blessed to be a guest and participant of Johnson O Connor (JOC). I am fascinated by the inter-workings of this organization. I took a battery of tests for about 5 hours. The employees of JOC are professional, yet caring and great at their jobs. Some tests were more enjoyable than others! They were all necessary to uncover my aptitudes. I was surprised by some, in particularly a high percentile score in "Pitch Discrimination". Not only was this insightful occupationally, but personally. After singing in my church choir for about 25 years, I have been out of action for 11 years. Several factors having been leading up to me rejoining the choir, and this discovery of "Pitch Discrimination" was the final reason that God used to bring me back to our wonderful choir. This is a chance for me to use this aptitude to glorify God!
Also, I scored high in several areas of math. I originally received a BBA in Business Management. This helps satisfies my questions of my interest in this major. However, there are other aspects of my personality that did not match up with the Business World. Fortunately, God guided me to a career as a teacher. As a retiree, I can look back with satisfaction of this career choice. I used my business and math skills with various subjects throughout my teaching career. And, I actually taught math exclusively for seven years, as well as part of my teaching-load for parts of three or four years.
With all that said, I really wished I would have had the opportunity to be tested at JOC during High School. Maybe, I would have gone straight into teaching, or maybe I would have been a Communications Major. I still have a dream of being a Radio DJ. Regardless, I highly recommend Johnson O Connor to all High School students. Besides the insight provided for one's personal and professional life due to high aptitudes, there are also recommendations for how to overcome low aptitudes. For example, some young people would be best served by going to a small school or a technical school. While others may flourish at a larger institution.
The latter part of the JOC commitments addresses helping people "derive more satisfaction from their lives by discovering their natural potential." I love this! Don't we all want a career that is fulfilling and one that we enjoy?! JOC helps one find just that. Also, our hobbies can be a place we find this satisfaction.
Finally, one personal insight for me was a low aptitude in one or two areas that allowed my JOC advisor to let me know that I would need to hire a plumber. I can't tell you how good that made me feel. All my life, I thought I cheated myself out of the skill of doing house-hold fixing skills, such as plumbing, because I was ALWAYS playing or studying sports. Now I realize that I don't have the aptitude for these types of things, and I feel better about myself.
I was recently blessed to be a guest and participant of Johnson O Connor (JOC). I am fascinated by the inter-workings of this organization. I took a battery of tests for about 5 hours. The employees of JOC are professional, yet caring and great at their jobs. Some tests were more enjoyable than others! They were all necessary to uncover my aptitudes. I was surprised by some, in particularly a high percentile score in "Pitch Discrimination". Not only was this insightful occupationally, but personally. After singing in my church choir for about 25 years, I have been out of action for 11 years. Several factors having been leading up to me rejoining the choir, and this discovery of "Pitch Discrimination" was the final reason that God used to bring me back to our wonderful choir. This is a chance for me to use this aptitude to glorify God!
Also, I scored high in several areas of math. I originally received a BBA in Business Management. This helps satisfies my questions of my interest in this major. However, there are other aspects of my personality that did not match up with the Business World. Fortunately, God guided me to a career as a teacher. As a retiree, I can look back with satisfaction of this career choice. I used my business and math skills with various subjects throughout my teaching career. And, I actually taught math exclusively for seven years, as well as part of my teaching-load for parts of three or four years.
With all that said, I really wished I would have had the opportunity to be tested at JOC during High School. Maybe, I would have gone straight into teaching, or maybe I would have been a Communications Major. I still have a dream of being a Radio DJ. Regardless, I highly recommend Johnson O Connor to all High School students. Besides the insight provided for one's personal and professional life due to high aptitudes, there are also recommendations for how to overcome low aptitudes. For example, some young people would be best served by going to a small school or a technical school. While others may flourish at a larger institution.
The latter part of the JOC commitments addresses helping people "derive more satisfaction from their lives by discovering their natural potential." I love this! Don't we all want a career that is fulfilling and one that we enjoy?! JOC helps one find just that. Also, our hobbies can be a place we find this satisfaction.
Finally, one personal insight for me was a low aptitude in one or two areas that allowed my JOC advisor to let me know that I would need to hire a plumber. I can't tell you how good that made me feel. All my life, I thought I cheated myself out of the skill of doing house-hold fixing skills, such as plumbing, because I was ALWAYS playing or studying sports. Now I realize that I don't have the aptitude for these types of things, and I feel better about myself.
Tuesday, May 23, 2017
The Love of Learning
As a newly retired teacher, my fuel and love of learning has accelerated! It makes be wonder if our methods of "education" are learner killers. My first response is, at least to a certain degree, yes. We have all gone to school for a certain level of education. I believe degrees are important. Hey, they can increase your pay level! That, in itself, is enough reason to pursue a higher degree. But, in order to learn a subject properly, I believe there must be some type of motivation other than money. As younger people, we often need that extrinsic motivation. Whether that may be our parents pushing us, or teachers encouraging us, or the reward of passing to the next grade or making the Honor Roll.
If we are to love learning, "education" must not hinder this love. I believe this love of learning is a part of being a satisfied person, and for the Christian, one of the ways we love the Lord with all our mind. (Thanks, M. Batterson, for helping me to see that.) How does education hinder learning?
A few of the ways I have experienced this turn off include:
1. Too much homework
2. Teachers misusing their authorities
3. Teachers/professors not preparing me for tests. (Or items showing up on tests that are not in the textbook or taught during class)
4. Being bored out of my mind
5. Being treated like a number (i.e.. we need you to pass this State test---because we want our numbers to look good)
6. "Covering" a vast amount of material, instead of teaching it.
***You may have items to add or your own list.***
I was a straight A student (except 2 B's) each grade through my 8th grade year. Much of my motivation was from my daddy demanding that I did well. However, I liked making high grades. It was an ego stroke for sure. In the sixth grade, I began to HATE school! One of the main reasons was having 3 hours of homework to do. I would complete it prior to going outside to play. And, we all know kids need to go outside and play! The other reason were times when teachers would misuse their authority. Maybe the test was unfair, including items that we were told would not be on the test. Sometimes, the teacher flat-out lied to the class! Plus, adding insult to our intelligence that she/he didn't think we knew they were lying.
Something happened during my eighth grade school year that changed my life. My daddy had a heart-attack. He didn't die, but he did change. Pre-heart attack, besides good grades, he also required me to have short hair. With my present slick head, it is hilarious to think about my desire to allow my hair to grow, but it was a big issue going back to first grade! Well, after Daddy had his heart-attack, he no longer said a word about my grades or hair! Both of them dropped!! I hate that I was a terrible student in high school, but "education" killed my desire to learn. As a matter of fact, I was NOT going to college. However, I had a part-time high school job at Sea Island Cotton Gin. I really liked my job, but realized how hard I would have to work without a college degree. So, I went to school and received a BBA in Business Adm. from Georgia Southern. After working a few months, I went back to school to be a teacher! This was one of the most ironic twists of my life. Mr. School Hater would now be a teacher. I also received my Masters in Middle Grades. It was a great deal of school for a hater.
On the other side of the desk, as a teacher, I remembered the reasons I hated school. While, I could not stop negative feelings from all my students, I could be fair and not give an enormous amount of homework. Those were two of the staples of my teaching career. The other important aspect was to try to have fun as we learned. Honestly, this was not always possible.
In conclusion, I hope I didn't allow "education" to kill my students love of learning. Now that I am a retiree, I have found my love of learning again! It helps me come alive in new ways! Praise God!!!
If we are to love learning, "education" must not hinder this love. I believe this love of learning is a part of being a satisfied person, and for the Christian, one of the ways we love the Lord with all our mind. (Thanks, M. Batterson, for helping me to see that.) How does education hinder learning?
A few of the ways I have experienced this turn off include:
1. Too much homework
2. Teachers misusing their authorities
3. Teachers/professors not preparing me for tests. (Or items showing up on tests that are not in the textbook or taught during class)
4. Being bored out of my mind
5. Being treated like a number (i.e.. we need you to pass this State test---because we want our numbers to look good)
6. "Covering" a vast amount of material, instead of teaching it.
***You may have items to add or your own list.***
I was a straight A student (except 2 B's) each grade through my 8th grade year. Much of my motivation was from my daddy demanding that I did well. However, I liked making high grades. It was an ego stroke for sure. In the sixth grade, I began to HATE school! One of the main reasons was having 3 hours of homework to do. I would complete it prior to going outside to play. And, we all know kids need to go outside and play! The other reason were times when teachers would misuse their authority. Maybe the test was unfair, including items that we were told would not be on the test. Sometimes, the teacher flat-out lied to the class! Plus, adding insult to our intelligence that she/he didn't think we knew they were lying.
Something happened during my eighth grade school year that changed my life. My daddy had a heart-attack. He didn't die, but he did change. Pre-heart attack, besides good grades, he also required me to have short hair. With my present slick head, it is hilarious to think about my desire to allow my hair to grow, but it was a big issue going back to first grade! Well, after Daddy had his heart-attack, he no longer said a word about my grades or hair! Both of them dropped!! I hate that I was a terrible student in high school, but "education" killed my desire to learn. As a matter of fact, I was NOT going to college. However, I had a part-time high school job at Sea Island Cotton Gin. I really liked my job, but realized how hard I would have to work without a college degree. So, I went to school and received a BBA in Business Adm. from Georgia Southern. After working a few months, I went back to school to be a teacher! This was one of the most ironic twists of my life. Mr. School Hater would now be a teacher. I also received my Masters in Middle Grades. It was a great deal of school for a hater.
On the other side of the desk, as a teacher, I remembered the reasons I hated school. While, I could not stop negative feelings from all my students, I could be fair and not give an enormous amount of homework. Those were two of the staples of my teaching career. The other important aspect was to try to have fun as we learned. Honestly, this was not always possible.
In conclusion, I hope I didn't allow "education" to kill my students love of learning. Now that I am a retiree, I have found my love of learning again! It helps me come alive in new ways! Praise God!!!
Friday, May 19, 2017
First Year Out of School--Review
This last day of school of 2017 gave me cause to think about my first year away from JRT. As a matter of fact, this is my first non-last day since 1987...30 years ago! Praise God that He gave me good health for 29 years (besides a few set-backs) so that I earned 1 & 1/3 years of sick leave. I applied this time to retirement, thus allowing me to retire in 29 years from public school.
1. Spiritual Check: I have grown spiritually in some ways due to road blocks, such as time-squeeze, being eliminated. This gift of more time has allowed me to not be hurried. I can spend quality time with the Lord. I have read the Bible and Christian books. Then, there is this new thing of being a writer. It has been so therapeutic! I am able to channel many thoughts and (hopefully insights) in to my blog. On the flip side, I know I am not where I need to be spiritually. Thankfully, God is willing to not give up on me. One of my biggest battles is wanting to be in control. Today, I realized a glimmer of true love for God that has not been present in my life. Don't get me wrong--I love God! But, there are times I am too ritualistic! I want more of this true love of God. I believe everything else will fall in to place with it.
2. Time: I have felt so squeezed on time for so long. There were many school days that I would have 30 minutes of "me time" just prior to going to bed. Selfishly, I was crying out for more! We do need an adequate amount of "me time" to be mentally healthy. Many people probably have no clue about my schedule, and I like it that way. Believe me, it was full for a long time! It caught up with me when I was about 50 years-old. I put the TIRED in reTIRED. So, much of this year has been a renewal process. A person I admire told me, "You are getting a new life rhythm." This is so true.
3. Schedule: Yes, I have one. But, it is not like a school schedule. I can go to the restroom when I want (need) to go! I can go out to eat--what a treat! I spend time with adults! I do NOT have to drive like a crazy man, although I still often do. I run errands, do house-work, and other daily "items" during the day instead of late in the afternoon or at night. This is one of my favorite parts of retirement.
4. Young people: I have enjoyed being around students for 3 decades! They have kept me young, plus they laugh at my jokes or imitate the Lowe Language. I miss that interaction. However, the Lord guided me to continue to be a Youth Helper at Vidalia First United Methodist Church. I have done this for over 20 of the last 35 years. This is such a blessing and privilege. These young people are so wonderful!
5. Family: There has been more time to spend with family, and I hope there will be even more in the future.
6. Attending events: As a teacher, I often skipped night events because I had to go to bed! This year, I have felt a fulfillment and freedom to attend many events. These include: a VHS & RTCA football game, a VHS & RTCA One-Act Play, VHS Cheerleading Competition, VHS Cross-Country, VHS Tennis, VHS Soccer, and the VHS Basketball game that gave Coach Chunk Reid the lead in all time wins as a GHSA Coach.
7. Health: It has really helped my back to not walk a couple of miles on tile every day. I used to dread going to the gym, but now it is an event! I go 4 or 5 times per week. I also do some walking. I feel good, praise the Lord!
8. Entertainment: I am free to attend events, watch a show that I want to, or chill.
9. Work: Praise God for my retirement check! My only paying-job is with Paul Anderson. I am the college and career facilitator. It has been so interesting learning a new function at PAYH. I have worked there for most of the last 5 years, and it is a wonderful place to be! It is a blessing! If you are looking to contribute to a worthy cause, prayerfully consider PAYH.
10. Something Different: On 2 occasions this year, our church has set up a Prayer Station at the corner of 280 and Church Street. It has been a neat thing. We plan to do more in the future.
11. The Future: I don't know what it holds. I know I am enjoying life and looking forward to God's plans. I am a learner. Each day is an opportunity. My dream is still to be a Contemporary Christian Music Radio DJ! Only God knows what the future holds, and I am glad for that!
1. Spiritual Check: I have grown spiritually in some ways due to road blocks, such as time-squeeze, being eliminated. This gift of more time has allowed me to not be hurried. I can spend quality time with the Lord. I have read the Bible and Christian books. Then, there is this new thing of being a writer. It has been so therapeutic! I am able to channel many thoughts and (hopefully insights) in to my blog. On the flip side, I know I am not where I need to be spiritually. Thankfully, God is willing to not give up on me. One of my biggest battles is wanting to be in control. Today, I realized a glimmer of true love for God that has not been present in my life. Don't get me wrong--I love God! But, there are times I am too ritualistic! I want more of this true love of God. I believe everything else will fall in to place with it.
2. Time: I have felt so squeezed on time for so long. There were many school days that I would have 30 minutes of "me time" just prior to going to bed. Selfishly, I was crying out for more! We do need an adequate amount of "me time" to be mentally healthy. Many people probably have no clue about my schedule, and I like it that way. Believe me, it was full for a long time! It caught up with me when I was about 50 years-old. I put the TIRED in reTIRED. So, much of this year has been a renewal process. A person I admire told me, "You are getting a new life rhythm." This is so true.
3. Schedule: Yes, I have one. But, it is not like a school schedule. I can go to the restroom when I want (need) to go! I can go out to eat--what a treat! I spend time with adults! I do NOT have to drive like a crazy man, although I still often do. I run errands, do house-work, and other daily "items" during the day instead of late in the afternoon or at night. This is one of my favorite parts of retirement.
4. Young people: I have enjoyed being around students for 3 decades! They have kept me young, plus they laugh at my jokes or imitate the Lowe Language. I miss that interaction. However, the Lord guided me to continue to be a Youth Helper at Vidalia First United Methodist Church. I have done this for over 20 of the last 35 years. This is such a blessing and privilege. These young people are so wonderful!
5. Family: There has been more time to spend with family, and I hope there will be even more in the future.
6. Attending events: As a teacher, I often skipped night events because I had to go to bed! This year, I have felt a fulfillment and freedom to attend many events. These include: a VHS & RTCA football game, a VHS & RTCA One-Act Play, VHS Cheerleading Competition, VHS Cross-Country, VHS Tennis, VHS Soccer, and the VHS Basketball game that gave Coach Chunk Reid the lead in all time wins as a GHSA Coach.
7. Health: It has really helped my back to not walk a couple of miles on tile every day. I used to dread going to the gym, but now it is an event! I go 4 or 5 times per week. I also do some walking. I feel good, praise the Lord!
8. Entertainment: I am free to attend events, watch a show that I want to, or chill.
9. Work: Praise God for my retirement check! My only paying-job is with Paul Anderson. I am the college and career facilitator. It has been so interesting learning a new function at PAYH. I have worked there for most of the last 5 years, and it is a wonderful place to be! It is a blessing! If you are looking to contribute to a worthy cause, prayerfully consider PAYH.
10. Something Different: On 2 occasions this year, our church has set up a Prayer Station at the corner of 280 and Church Street. It has been a neat thing. We plan to do more in the future.
11. The Future: I don't know what it holds. I know I am enjoying life and looking forward to God's plans. I am a learner. Each day is an opportunity. My dream is still to be a Contemporary Christian Music Radio DJ! Only God knows what the future holds, and I am glad for that!
Tuesday, May 16, 2017
The Smallest Player on the Floor Makes the Biggest Impact
I admit that I am not a big NBA fan, so I am oblivious to many good players. I rarely watch regular season games. So, I have just become familiar with a player who has been in the League for 7 years. His name is Isaiah Thomas.
Thomas was the 60th (and last) pick of the 2011 draft. He was drafted by the Sacramento Kings after he spent 3 years playing college ball with the Washington Huskies. In 2014, Thomas was traded to the Phoenix Suns. His time was short with the Suns. In February, 2015, Thomas was traded to the Boston Celtics. He has flourished in Boston! He has averaged over 20 points and over 5 assists per game. Thomas has had an incredible year in 2016-17! He has averaged 28.9 points per game. But, his strongest statistic is averaging over 10 points in the 4th quarter (2nd in the league).
Last night, I watched the Celtics close out the Washington Wizards in game 7 of the Eastern Conference Semi-Finals. Thomas is so tough mentally! If a seven-footer is guarding him, he will step back and shoot a jumper. He has blazing speed! Thomas will blow by the entire team's defense if they aren't ready.
It's great to pull for the little guy. The next match-up for the Celtics will be against the Lebron-led Cavaliers. Thomas better get his sling shot and rocks ready!
Thomas was the 60th (and last) pick of the 2011 draft. He was drafted by the Sacramento Kings after he spent 3 years playing college ball with the Washington Huskies. In 2014, Thomas was traded to the Phoenix Suns. His time was short with the Suns. In February, 2015, Thomas was traded to the Boston Celtics. He has flourished in Boston! He has averaged over 20 points and over 5 assists per game. Thomas has had an incredible year in 2016-17! He has averaged 28.9 points per game. But, his strongest statistic is averaging over 10 points in the 4th quarter (2nd in the league).
Last night, I watched the Celtics close out the Washington Wizards in game 7 of the Eastern Conference Semi-Finals. Thomas is so tough mentally! If a seven-footer is guarding him, he will step back and shoot a jumper. He has blazing speed! Thomas will blow by the entire team's defense if they aren't ready.
It's great to pull for the little guy. The next match-up for the Celtics will be against the Lebron-led Cavaliers. Thomas better get his sling shot and rocks ready!
Monday, May 15, 2017
My Love of Sports
I don't remember not loving sports! I wonder if my daddy started me off really young with hitting the ball or playing catch. Whatever reason, I loved sports like women love shopping. I use the past tense because I find myself not being quite the fanatic as I was growing up. I can remember watching the Falcons every Sunday. There was only one (sometimes two) college football games on Saturdays. I think I probably played football and other sports in the fall. I hated winter! As I am now fatter and older, I realize my skinny body didn't have much insulation. Also, I had cheap coats that did not keep warm when it was really cold. When cable hit town in the 70's, I watched ACC Basketball, Hawks Basketball, Atlanta Flames Hockey, and whatever else I could find. I was a die-hard Braves fan as well. This began when they were almost exclusively on the radio, then on television when cable came to town.
Fortunately, we did not have video games! That allowed us to enjoy playing basketball, football, baseball, chase, and frisbee games. My neighborhood was full of kids, so there was rarely a time when you couldn't find a game. If not, I would head across the street to Ann Hutcheson's house to shoot B-ball on my own.
Some of my favorite sports moments certainly involved my daddy. When he got home from work around 6 Bells, I would have the gloves/baseball or football ready. I don't remember him ever turning me down for a catch. Glad I didn't have to build a field so he would come!
The best trip daddy ever pulled off was the 1972 Major League All-Star Baseball Game in Atlanta! That was a thrill! He also took me and our family to many Braves games. I can't believe how much I loved watching those sorry teams! We also took a family trip to Athens in the Fall of 1978 for my first UGA Home Game vs Baylor. Daddy and I had sideline passes! We thought we were somebody until they told us to sit on these Rec. Dept. style bleachers that were located behind the players. We couldn't see anything. Fortunately, my mother and sister had seats in the lower deck. By the second quarter, we were in those seats. I'm not sure, but that was probably the last game Daddy and I attended together.
I was thinking earlier today about working at Sea Island Cotton Gin in the summers of 1978 and '79. I realized those were the only 2 summers I didn't play or coach softball or baseball from 1969-1996. Of course, I also played football and basketball for many years. I coached 40 seasons over a 21-year span. This included coaching: baseball, football, basketball, and softball. This does not count the 19 years that I worked part-time (sometimes full-time) at the VRD. Maybe my busiest year of teaching/coaching was 1988-89. After I finished coaching the VRD Midget Girls All Stars, the year began with two-a-days with the VHS football team. The season lasted 18 weeks, since we made it to the quarterfinal round. I immediately went to work with VRD Basketball. When it was over, I began coaching baseball with VHS. This was followed by VRD Spring work, followed by VRD coaching staff work that summer. Of course I was a middle school teacher during the year, and played VRD Church League Softball. That year finally ended!
When Fall rolled around, I didn't coach football, instead I began working on my Masters Degree. By Baseball season, it was the same routine as before. God prepared me for every situation that I moved on from. By the time I quit coaching, I was beyond ready. And by the time I quit teaching, I was beyond ready.
At the present, I would call myself a sports enthusiast, but not the fanatic I previously was. Now in the Fall, instead of 11 or 12 hours of college football on Saturdays, I probably watch 8 hours. I watch very few Braves games. I became invested in the Falcons a few years back, after leaving them for a spell. If the Hawks are good, I can watch them. I rarely watch Sports Center. However, I watch Colin Cowherd about 3 or 4 times a week for about an hour per time. I love 30 for 30s, and good sports movies. I would rather relive the glory days of sports than watch the present era. I play no sports at my double-nickel age.
To sum it up: I am old; I have a short attention span; I am very critical during games; I change the channel; I can not stand politics in sports!
Fortunately, we did not have video games! That allowed us to enjoy playing basketball, football, baseball, chase, and frisbee games. My neighborhood was full of kids, so there was rarely a time when you couldn't find a game. If not, I would head across the street to Ann Hutcheson's house to shoot B-ball on my own.
Some of my favorite sports moments certainly involved my daddy. When he got home from work around 6 Bells, I would have the gloves/baseball or football ready. I don't remember him ever turning me down for a catch. Glad I didn't have to build a field so he would come!
The best trip daddy ever pulled off was the 1972 Major League All-Star Baseball Game in Atlanta! That was a thrill! He also took me and our family to many Braves games. I can't believe how much I loved watching those sorry teams! We also took a family trip to Athens in the Fall of 1978 for my first UGA Home Game vs Baylor. Daddy and I had sideline passes! We thought we were somebody until they told us to sit on these Rec. Dept. style bleachers that were located behind the players. We couldn't see anything. Fortunately, my mother and sister had seats in the lower deck. By the second quarter, we were in those seats. I'm not sure, but that was probably the last game Daddy and I attended together.
I was thinking earlier today about working at Sea Island Cotton Gin in the summers of 1978 and '79. I realized those were the only 2 summers I didn't play or coach softball or baseball from 1969-1996. Of course, I also played football and basketball for many years. I coached 40 seasons over a 21-year span. This included coaching: baseball, football, basketball, and softball. This does not count the 19 years that I worked part-time (sometimes full-time) at the VRD. Maybe my busiest year of teaching/coaching was 1988-89. After I finished coaching the VRD Midget Girls All Stars, the year began with two-a-days with the VHS football team. The season lasted 18 weeks, since we made it to the quarterfinal round. I immediately went to work with VRD Basketball. When it was over, I began coaching baseball with VHS. This was followed by VRD Spring work, followed by VRD coaching staff work that summer. Of course I was a middle school teacher during the year, and played VRD Church League Softball. That year finally ended!
When Fall rolled around, I didn't coach football, instead I began working on my Masters Degree. By Baseball season, it was the same routine as before. God prepared me for every situation that I moved on from. By the time I quit coaching, I was beyond ready. And by the time I quit teaching, I was beyond ready.
At the present, I would call myself a sports enthusiast, but not the fanatic I previously was. Now in the Fall, instead of 11 or 12 hours of college football on Saturdays, I probably watch 8 hours. I watch very few Braves games. I became invested in the Falcons a few years back, after leaving them for a spell. If the Hawks are good, I can watch them. I rarely watch Sports Center. However, I watch Colin Cowherd about 3 or 4 times a week for about an hour per time. I love 30 for 30s, and good sports movies. I would rather relive the glory days of sports than watch the present era. I play no sports at my double-nickel age.
To sum it up: I am old; I have a short attention span; I am very critical during games; I change the channel; I can not stand politics in sports!
Saturday, May 13, 2017
A Day at Georgia Southern/Statesboro
This past week, I took a little trip to Statesboro. I wanted to watch Fate of the Furious and eat at Olive Garden. The first possible time to watch the movie was 3:40. So after I had an early lunch, I had time to kill. I knew I was going to the GSU Bookstore to perhaps find a bargain. Well, I found quite a few. On my way to the Baseball Field, I got on Sweetheart Circle and decided to stop at my old dorm, Lewis Hall. I knew it was some type of school office building and it had to have been renovated. Lewis Hall was my introductory dorm to Georgia Southern. To put it bluntly, it was a piece of junk. Our room had no A.C. and radiator-looking heaters. When they were running, it sounded like someone was in the basement hitting on the pipes. I hated that dorm! Back to present day---I was shocked at how nice the place was. Even the sidewalk outside was nice! Lewis now houses: Office of Admissions, New Student and Family Programs, and Welcome Center. In the old days, the front door led in to a nasty carpeted Commons Area, complete with gross furniture. In the present, as one comes in the front door, you find a beautiful wooden floor with attractive surroundings. I was greeted by a nice, young man who seemed to quickly realize this was my former dorm. (Wonder how many other nuts wanted to see their old dorm?!) He allowed me to look around and took me upstairs to the locale of my old room. That area had been completely gutted. It was all office space, which was very nice. I looked around satisfied, thanked the nice, young man and continued my self-directed tour. Next stop, the Baseball Field. In the Spring of 1980, there was a hill to sit on, where fans unmercifully ragged the other team, in particularly the opposing pitching coach! In present day, the baseball field is beautiful. No hill! Nice stands everywhere! The coolest addition is the Blue Monster in Right Field. They actually change out the score by hand, Fenway style. I got back in my car and rode around to reminisce and waste time until the movie started! I eventually ended up at the Football Field, where I got out to get some exercise and check out the new artificial turf. I walked through the stadium and took pictures of the field from various vantage points. The bad thing about riding around in the heat and wasting time before the movie...temptation to get something cold to eat or drink. I don't remember the order, but I got a small cup of chocolate "real ice cream." I sat in the shade and chowed down. Later (or earlier...I don't remember since it was mind-dulling), I went to the Mall. Yes, it was that boring, but it was free air condition...more than I can say for my original dorm, Lewis Hall, back in the day. As I walked around the mall, I decided to get an Icee. Finally, I went over to the theater and waited outside. A nice lady allowed us to come in. And, no....I did NOT get anything to eat or drink at the movie, which cost $9.10 for a matinee! What!? I am Fast Movie Fan. This version was pretty good. There was awesome driving, and a few touching moments, but it wasn't my favorite. It was time to head back to the Onion City. I may or may not have gotten some supper on the way home.???
Friday, May 12, 2017
A Name is a Name
WARNING: The following contains an excess amount of corniness! Read at your own risk.
A name is a name. But, it is so fun to make up names to enhance the given name. I have a few to share.
I have one of the most boring names in the world: James Lowe. My first and last names total 9 letters!
My full name is James Ronald Lowe, Jr, but that's not helping anything. So....I have enhanced my name from time to time. When I was younger, I decided to help my chances to make it to the MLB by changing my name to Dusty Lowe. It had a little flair, but my lack of skills stopped the dream! Even though I didn't make it to the majors, I use the name liberally.
Prior to Jennifer Lopez, using J Lo, you guessed it....I was the Original J Lo!! (At least, that's the way I remember it.) I think many people prefer this over my boring name.
Since I am single, I thought maybe my middle name could be "So". Therefore, I would be James So-Lowe. (Corniness meter is rising!)
If my hair was just a little longer...I could be James Fro-Lowe. Nahhhh!
Let's move on to a friend. Her name is Joanne Askew. How cool of a name is "Askew"?
If my last name was Askew and I had a son, his middle name would be "Who". I would call him Who. Can you imagine the conversations.
My boy is pulled over by a police officer for speeding. The officer walks up to the driver side window and introduces himself. My boy kind of points to himself and says Who Askew! Then, he's arrested.
My boy meets the girl of his dreams! She says, "I'm Wanda Kilgore. What's your name?"
My boy says, "Who Askew."
Wanda responds, "Well, I never!"
Who is like..."Wanda, why ya tripping?'
Wanda screeches, "The least you can do is tell me your name!"
My boy proudly points to himself and says, "Who Askew!"
Wanda says, "At this point I really don't care who ask you!"
My boy responds, "What's with the apathy, Wanda?"
Wanda slaps Who and says, "First, you won't tell me your name and now you are using fowl language!" Wanda storms off!
If you made it to this point in the post, God bless you!!
A name is a name. But, it is so fun to make up names to enhance the given name. I have a few to share.
I have one of the most boring names in the world: James Lowe. My first and last names total 9 letters!
My full name is James Ronald Lowe, Jr, but that's not helping anything. So....I have enhanced my name from time to time. When I was younger, I decided to help my chances to make it to the MLB by changing my name to Dusty Lowe. It had a little flair, but my lack of skills stopped the dream! Even though I didn't make it to the majors, I use the name liberally.
Prior to Jennifer Lopez, using J Lo, you guessed it....I was the Original J Lo!! (At least, that's the way I remember it.) I think many people prefer this over my boring name.
Since I am single, I thought maybe my middle name could be "So". Therefore, I would be James So-Lowe. (Corniness meter is rising!)
If my hair was just a little longer...I could be James Fro-Lowe. Nahhhh!
Let's move on to a friend. Her name is Joanne Askew. How cool of a name is "Askew"?
If my last name was Askew and I had a son, his middle name would be "Who". I would call him Who. Can you imagine the conversations.
My boy is pulled over by a police officer for speeding. The officer walks up to the driver side window and introduces himself. My boy kind of points to himself and says Who Askew! Then, he's arrested.
My boy meets the girl of his dreams! She says, "I'm Wanda Kilgore. What's your name?"
My boy says, "Who Askew."
Wanda responds, "Well, I never!"
Who is like..."Wanda, why ya tripping?'
Wanda screeches, "The least you can do is tell me your name!"
My boy proudly points to himself and says, "Who Askew!"
Wanda says, "At this point I really don't care who ask you!"
My boy responds, "What's with the apathy, Wanda?"
Wanda slaps Who and says, "First, you won't tell me your name and now you are using fowl language!" Wanda storms off!
If you made it to this point in the post, God bless you!!
Tuesday, May 9, 2017
Our Heavenly Father Knows When Each Sparrow Falls!
I am a big believer of Keeping the Main Thing the Main Thing. Thus, the most important question in life is the one asked by Jesus to his disciples, "But who do you say I am?" I agree with Simon Peter's answer, "You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God." (Matthew 16:15-16)
1 John 5:11-12 And this is what God has testified: He has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have God's Son does not have life.
This is the bottom-line verse.
However...God does not stop caring for us with the Main Thing! John 10:10 The thief's purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life. (NLT) God cares about the smallest details in our lives. Psalm 37:23 The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives.
As we live our daily lives, so many forces oppose us. But none of them can stand up against God! Therefore, we should not be afraid. Matthew 10:28-31 Don't be afraid of those who want to kill your body; they cannot touch your soul. Fear only God, who can destroy both soul and body in hell. What is the price of two sparrows--one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.
GOD'S MESSAGE TO US: WE ARE IMPORTANT!!
1 John 5:11-12 And this is what God has testified: He has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have God's Son does not have life.
This is the bottom-line verse.
However...God does not stop caring for us with the Main Thing! John 10:10 The thief's purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life. (NLT) God cares about the smallest details in our lives. Psalm 37:23 The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives.
As we live our daily lives, so many forces oppose us. But none of them can stand up against God! Therefore, we should not be afraid. Matthew 10:28-31 Don't be afraid of those who want to kill your body; they cannot touch your soul. Fear only God, who can destroy both soul and body in hell. What is the price of two sparrows--one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.
GOD'S MESSAGE TO US: WE ARE IMPORTANT!!
Monday, May 8, 2017
Blessings from Mr. Billy Morrison
Blinded by Blessings! As I have grown older, I realize this statement represents me. My childhood was wonderful! I would not trade my parents with anyone else. They were so good to me, and gave me a great up-bringing. Furthermore, my extended family has always been a source of strength and love! Now that we are adults, my sister and I have talked about how fortunate we were that our parents' friends were so cool and invested so much quality in our lives. They had a big part of shaping the people we have become. As members of Vidalia First United Methodist Church, we were provided with caring Christian people who brought us up in the way of the Lord. As a young Christian while in high school, many adults from my church as well as other area church leaders were instrumental in my life.
However, I amazed myself that I really didn't recognize just how important my childhood friends' parents were to me until it hit me this weekend. Don't get me wrong, I have appreciated so many of these wonderful people, but as I dwelled on this thought, it became apparent to me that my friends' parents have been parents to me while I was at their home or on road trips. They housed me, fed me, and put up with my shenanigans! The reason this came home to me was my thoughts and prayers for the Billy Morrison family.
After hearing about the passing of Mr. Billy, thoughts of our time together flooded my mind. Since Billy's son, Granville and I were great friends while growing up, I was constantly at their house. Granville's parents were ALWAYS good to me. Sisters Veronica and Angela were my friends, too.
But, Granville's daddy was special! The Morrisons had a great backyard for sports! I am saying... we played football, baseball, basketball, frisbee hockey, and even boxed for a little while. Mr. Billy was All-time Quarterback and All-time Pitcher...meaning he pitched and quarterbacked both teams. He made the teams fair. He required us to follow the rules. He made things seem official. I heard it at least once (if not more), "If Granville's daddy is not playing, I'm not playing." As kids, we could make up teams and play games on our own just fine, but his daddy enhanced things so much that it just wasn't as fun without him. One of my favorite parts was his commentary of the game while he was playing. With his deep voice, he would build us up and we thought we had made some great play. In a nutshell...WE WERE VERY BLESSED TO HAVE MR. BILLY! I'll never forget the times Mr. Billy was pitching and he would get someone out. He would say, "Give me another mullet!" or " Next mullet!" This meant for the next batter to take the plate to be the batter. It is so engrained in me that even last year as a middle school teacher, I would say, "Next Mullet!" This meant next volunteer or question. Of course, I had to either explain it or change my vernacular!
Praise God for allowing me to have Mr. Billy Morrison as my adult-supervisor, fellow-competitor, advisor, commentator for games, and friend!!
However, I amazed myself that I really didn't recognize just how important my childhood friends' parents were to me until it hit me this weekend. Don't get me wrong, I have appreciated so many of these wonderful people, but as I dwelled on this thought, it became apparent to me that my friends' parents have been parents to me while I was at their home or on road trips. They housed me, fed me, and put up with my shenanigans! The reason this came home to me was my thoughts and prayers for the Billy Morrison family.
After hearing about the passing of Mr. Billy, thoughts of our time together flooded my mind. Since Billy's son, Granville and I were great friends while growing up, I was constantly at their house. Granville's parents were ALWAYS good to me. Sisters Veronica and Angela were my friends, too.
But, Granville's daddy was special! The Morrisons had a great backyard for sports! I am saying... we played football, baseball, basketball, frisbee hockey, and even boxed for a little while. Mr. Billy was All-time Quarterback and All-time Pitcher...meaning he pitched and quarterbacked both teams. He made the teams fair. He required us to follow the rules. He made things seem official. I heard it at least once (if not more), "If Granville's daddy is not playing, I'm not playing." As kids, we could make up teams and play games on our own just fine, but his daddy enhanced things so much that it just wasn't as fun without him. One of my favorite parts was his commentary of the game while he was playing. With his deep voice, he would build us up and we thought we had made some great play. In a nutshell...WE WERE VERY BLESSED TO HAVE MR. BILLY! I'll never forget the times Mr. Billy was pitching and he would get someone out. He would say, "Give me another mullet!" or " Next mullet!" This meant for the next batter to take the plate to be the batter. It is so engrained in me that even last year as a middle school teacher, I would say, "Next Mullet!" This meant next volunteer or question. Of course, I had to either explain it or change my vernacular!
Praise God for allowing me to have Mr. Billy Morrison as my adult-supervisor, fellow-competitor, advisor, commentator for games, and friend!!
Sunday, May 7, 2017
Advice for Graduates
Congratulations!! You have already made it through many trials and decisions! You have fortunately had people to help you along the way. God has enabled you to get to this day!!
Prior to making decisions for the next stage of your life, remember these 3 things: PRAY, PRAY, PRAY! Seek God's direction for your life. Ask Him to lead you; plead with Him to guide you; pray He will direct you!
Psalm 37:23 The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives.
You will be privileged to experience a new type of freedom. Embrace it.
You will enter a new stage of life. Embrace it.
You will make many decisions your parents have previously made for you. Embrace it.
However, with this freedom, comes responsibility.
Galatians 5:13 For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don't use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love.
The late, great Coach John Wooden had 3 principles for life. Let's apply the first one: Be true to yourself. You will meet new people. You will make new friends. You will gain new knowledge. You will be exposed to new things. You will be offered some things that are not good for you. The evil one will be after you. God will seek you as The Hound from Heaven.
When it is all said and done, Be true to yourself.
Seek a place to worship God that is right for you. Get plugged in and draw from the well of God's Spirit. Stay strong. But know when you sin, you can be honest with God, and He will forgive you. PRAY. Study your Bible. Seek out Christian friends, and keep the ones you already have.
If you need to change your plans, goals, major...it's ok. Wisely use your time and money. Seek a job that will allow you to use your passion. You want to enjoy the field of work that you will have for decades. Money is NOT the bottom line.
Keep your eyes open.
Finally, remember the scene from the movie, Courageous where Shane has been caught taking confiscated drugs for the purpose of reselling them. When he was arrested, he said things like: "You are making a mistake" "I can't make it on $36,000 a year" "You would have done the same thing" After he spends time in jail, he received a visit from Adam. At this point Shane no longer made excuses. He confessed that he let go of the real. As you enter this next season of life, don't let go of the real, but Be true to yourself.
Prior to making decisions for the next stage of your life, remember these 3 things: PRAY, PRAY, PRAY! Seek God's direction for your life. Ask Him to lead you; plead with Him to guide you; pray He will direct you!
Psalm 37:23 The Lord directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives.
You will be privileged to experience a new type of freedom. Embrace it.
You will enter a new stage of life. Embrace it.
You will make many decisions your parents have previously made for you. Embrace it.
However, with this freedom, comes responsibility.
Galatians 5:13 For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don't use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love.
The late, great Coach John Wooden had 3 principles for life. Let's apply the first one: Be true to yourself. You will meet new people. You will make new friends. You will gain new knowledge. You will be exposed to new things. You will be offered some things that are not good for you. The evil one will be after you. God will seek you as The Hound from Heaven.
When it is all said and done, Be true to yourself.
Seek a place to worship God that is right for you. Get plugged in and draw from the well of God's Spirit. Stay strong. But know when you sin, you can be honest with God, and He will forgive you. PRAY. Study your Bible. Seek out Christian friends, and keep the ones you already have.
If you need to change your plans, goals, major...it's ok. Wisely use your time and money. Seek a job that will allow you to use your passion. You want to enjoy the field of work that you will have for decades. Money is NOT the bottom line.
Keep your eyes open.
Finally, remember the scene from the movie, Courageous where Shane has been caught taking confiscated drugs for the purpose of reselling them. When he was arrested, he said things like: "You are making a mistake" "I can't make it on $36,000 a year" "You would have done the same thing" After he spends time in jail, he received a visit from Adam. At this point Shane no longer made excuses. He confessed that he let go of the real. As you enter this next season of life, don't let go of the real, but Be true to yourself.
Thursday, May 4, 2017
Praise God for the Robert Greene Family!
In June of 2009, the First United Methodist Church of Vidalia and our community were blessed by the arrival of the Robert Greene Family! William was a little shy of 2 to complete the family of 3! We were so happy to have a pastoral young-age child for the first time in about 20 years. Of course, the family would soon increase by 2 with the births of daughters Lauren and Caroline.
Robert immediately brought dynamite energy to our church! I love that God called him to the ministry out of a Railroad position. He is really a smart guy, and spiritually insightful. Robert is personable and concerned for his flock. His sermons have been clear and Bible-based. He has made it clear that Jesus is the ONLY way to the Father!
About 3 years before Robert arrived, we had a Yearly Counsel on Ministries Meeting that was one of the most Spirit-filled meetings that I had been a part of. One big part of the meeting was a need for a Praise and Worship service. After the meeting, this idea hit a brick wall. At that time, we had 2 morning worship services in the Sanctuary. Neither group wanted to give up a traditional service, so Robert said he would be willing to preach 3 Morning services: 8:30 Traditional (Sanctuary); 9:00 Praise & Worship(Activity Center); 11:00 Traditional(Sanctuary).
Our dream prayer was answered--all in God's timing. Praise the Lord!!!
Kate, Robert's wife is an absolute jewel! She is a woman of faith and a spiritual leader. She has been a tremendous leader in the Women's IF Conferences, as well as other church positions. Their children have been involved in ministry as well. They gave away lemonade and accepted donations for orphans!
As we look toward the future, God is the reason we have life! Christ is the reason we are saved! The church is the bride of Christ! Let us be submissive to God's authority and wisdom as we have a change in our pastoral family! Our prayers go with the Greene family! Our prayers precede the Jim Smith family, who are scheduled to join us in June!
ALL GLORY TO GOD!!!
Robert immediately brought dynamite energy to our church! I love that God called him to the ministry out of a Railroad position. He is really a smart guy, and spiritually insightful. Robert is personable and concerned for his flock. His sermons have been clear and Bible-based. He has made it clear that Jesus is the ONLY way to the Father!
About 3 years before Robert arrived, we had a Yearly Counsel on Ministries Meeting that was one of the most Spirit-filled meetings that I had been a part of. One big part of the meeting was a need for a Praise and Worship service. After the meeting, this idea hit a brick wall. At that time, we had 2 morning worship services in the Sanctuary. Neither group wanted to give up a traditional service, so Robert said he would be willing to preach 3 Morning services: 8:30 Traditional (Sanctuary); 9:00 Praise & Worship(Activity Center); 11:00 Traditional(Sanctuary).
Our dream prayer was answered--all in God's timing. Praise the Lord!!!
Kate, Robert's wife is an absolute jewel! She is a woman of faith and a spiritual leader. She has been a tremendous leader in the Women's IF Conferences, as well as other church positions. Their children have been involved in ministry as well. They gave away lemonade and accepted donations for orphans!
As we look toward the future, God is the reason we have life! Christ is the reason we are saved! The church is the bride of Christ! Let us be submissive to God's authority and wisdom as we have a change in our pastoral family! Our prayers go with the Greene family! Our prayers precede the Jim Smith family, who are scheduled to join us in June!
ALL GLORY TO GOD!!!
Tuesday, May 2, 2017
A Tribute to Coach Chunk Reid
881 47 1
Numbers don't lie, at least in this case! Coach Chunk Reid, recently retired from coaching the Vidalia High School Girls Basketball Team. The numbers represent the following:
881 wins as the VHS Girls Basketball Coach!
47 years as the VHS Girls Basketball Coach!
Number 1 in wins in GHSA history as a Girls Basketball Coach!
Someone recently asked me the reason Coach Reid was such a good coach. I wasn't sure the answer. I believe there are many reasons, and a lot I can't fathom. Obviously, his opponents couldn't figure out the reasons for his success or they would have stopped him.
However, I have some ideas of why he has been such a successful coach. My relationship with Coach Reid goes way back. It first began for me as I watched my sister being coached by him. She played early in his career. Nancy was on the: '71-'72, '72-'73, & 73-'74 teams. These were successful teams! I enjoyed watching the games. I remember great players like: Kay Thompson Brown, Bezel Cooper, Polly Ann Fields Martin, Kay Sanford, and Nancy Hansley to name a few.
My second connection to Coach Reid was in '78-'79 when he was my DCT teacher at VHS. I can remember searching for possible careers during this class. It was very valuable, especially in the elimination of unwanted jobs. This class also allowed me to work my high-school job at Sea Island Cotton Gin, which taught me so many things that "school" could never teach me. I am a big believer in high school students having a job.
After I decided to not go to college, then changed my mind and went to college, I earned a business degree. After a few months working in the business world, I decided to go back to college to be a teacher. One reason was to become a coach. I had done some coaching for the VRD and GSC Intramurals and I really like it. Coach Reid and I had similar coaching paths. We both were interested in coaching football and baseball, which we both did. Next, we both landed in Girls Sports and loved it. So, my football career was with Coach Buck Cravey for one season at VHS in 1988. Coach Reid was a game-day coach for the team. For some reason, we seemed to always sit together on the rides to and from the games. I enjoyed the conversations and learned at the same time. After 3 years of coaching baseball ('89-'91) for VHS and Coach Gregg James, I "retired" from high school coaching.
About 1 & 1/2 years later (Fall of '92), Coach Reid called and offered me the Girls Softball B-Team coaching position, which I accepted. I was attempting to finish my Masters degree, so that was all of my coaching duties for that school year. After finishing my Masters in the summer of '93, Coach Reid gave me some great opportunities. I was head B-Team/ Assistant Varsity for the VHS Girls Softball Team for 3 years ('93-'95). We had great success, winning 3 Region Titles and a State Runner-Up finish. In 1996, I coached the first ever J.R. Trippe Girls softball team and was Coach Reid's assistant for VHS Varsity softball. Once again, VHS was the Region winner and State Runner-Up. Even though we won the Middle School League Title, I told Coach Reid that I would not coach middle school softball again, but I would help him. To my pleasant surprise, he said he would turn the varsity over to me. First, this was quite an honor because Coach Reid had been the only VHS Girls Softball Coach. The program started in the early 80s and he had much success, including a State Championship in '86. I was thankful he trusted me with the team. Also, this was a life-long dream coming to fruition of being a head-varsity coach of a high school sport. I really appreciated Coach Reid allowing me to reach that goal. From there, Coach Reid was my Athletic Director, advisor and friend.
Now to attempt to explain his success. Once again, you would have to ask him, but I do know some of the ingredients for his historical success.
1. He is the best listener I have ever known. He also would tell you his opinion. Honestly there were times Coach Reid and I disagreed, but it wasn't because he didn't listen to me.
2. He is willing to think outside the box. He analyzes situations and does what he thinks is best. He is not overly concerned about public opinion. He sticks to his guns unless someone has a better idea.
3. He built a winning tradition. This is a cornerstone for any program that can win on this magnitude to allow you to win more games than any coach ever in the sport you coach.
4. He had good players. To be a good coach, you must have some talent.
5. He had good assistants, especially Coach Sissy Anderson for 20 years. Basketball is fast paced and it takes another set of eyes to help watch 10 players playing at the same time.
6. He had competitive practices. This shows up time and again with great coaches.
7. He adapted to the changes of the game. One example: When my sister played in the early '70s, there were 6 players per team. There were 2 forwards, who could only play on the offensive half of the court. There were 2 defensive guards, who could only play on the defensive half of the court. And, there were 2 rovers, who could play anywhere on the court. So, the game was basically 4 on 4 on either side of the court.
8. He used psychology and knowledge of players as elements to use in motivating that particular player.
9. He loves Vidalia High School. There is no substitute for loyalty.
10. He has a VERY supportive wife! Barbara was there at games and supported coach, knowing he would be gone a lot.
VHS is very fortunate to have had Coach Reid! I wish him the best in his future endeavors!
Numbers don't lie, at least in this case! Coach Chunk Reid, recently retired from coaching the Vidalia High School Girls Basketball Team. The numbers represent the following:
881 wins as the VHS Girls Basketball Coach!
47 years as the VHS Girls Basketball Coach!
Number 1 in wins in GHSA history as a Girls Basketball Coach!
Someone recently asked me the reason Coach Reid was such a good coach. I wasn't sure the answer. I believe there are many reasons, and a lot I can't fathom. Obviously, his opponents couldn't figure out the reasons for his success or they would have stopped him.
However, I have some ideas of why he has been such a successful coach. My relationship with Coach Reid goes way back. It first began for me as I watched my sister being coached by him. She played early in his career. Nancy was on the: '71-'72, '72-'73, & 73-'74 teams. These were successful teams! I enjoyed watching the games. I remember great players like: Kay Thompson Brown, Bezel Cooper, Polly Ann Fields Martin, Kay Sanford, and Nancy Hansley to name a few.
My second connection to Coach Reid was in '78-'79 when he was my DCT teacher at VHS. I can remember searching for possible careers during this class. It was very valuable, especially in the elimination of unwanted jobs. This class also allowed me to work my high-school job at Sea Island Cotton Gin, which taught me so many things that "school" could never teach me. I am a big believer in high school students having a job.
After I decided to not go to college, then changed my mind and went to college, I earned a business degree. After a few months working in the business world, I decided to go back to college to be a teacher. One reason was to become a coach. I had done some coaching for the VRD and GSC Intramurals and I really like it. Coach Reid and I had similar coaching paths. We both were interested in coaching football and baseball, which we both did. Next, we both landed in Girls Sports and loved it. So, my football career was with Coach Buck Cravey for one season at VHS in 1988. Coach Reid was a game-day coach for the team. For some reason, we seemed to always sit together on the rides to and from the games. I enjoyed the conversations and learned at the same time. After 3 years of coaching baseball ('89-'91) for VHS and Coach Gregg James, I "retired" from high school coaching.
About 1 & 1/2 years later (Fall of '92), Coach Reid called and offered me the Girls Softball B-Team coaching position, which I accepted. I was attempting to finish my Masters degree, so that was all of my coaching duties for that school year. After finishing my Masters in the summer of '93, Coach Reid gave me some great opportunities. I was head B-Team/ Assistant Varsity for the VHS Girls Softball Team for 3 years ('93-'95). We had great success, winning 3 Region Titles and a State Runner-Up finish. In 1996, I coached the first ever J.R. Trippe Girls softball team and was Coach Reid's assistant for VHS Varsity softball. Once again, VHS was the Region winner and State Runner-Up. Even though we won the Middle School League Title, I told Coach Reid that I would not coach middle school softball again, but I would help him. To my pleasant surprise, he said he would turn the varsity over to me. First, this was quite an honor because Coach Reid had been the only VHS Girls Softball Coach. The program started in the early 80s and he had much success, including a State Championship in '86. I was thankful he trusted me with the team. Also, this was a life-long dream coming to fruition of being a head-varsity coach of a high school sport. I really appreciated Coach Reid allowing me to reach that goal. From there, Coach Reid was my Athletic Director, advisor and friend.
Now to attempt to explain his success. Once again, you would have to ask him, but I do know some of the ingredients for his historical success.
1. He is the best listener I have ever known. He also would tell you his opinion. Honestly there were times Coach Reid and I disagreed, but it wasn't because he didn't listen to me.
2. He is willing to think outside the box. He analyzes situations and does what he thinks is best. He is not overly concerned about public opinion. He sticks to his guns unless someone has a better idea.
3. He built a winning tradition. This is a cornerstone for any program that can win on this magnitude to allow you to win more games than any coach ever in the sport you coach.
4. He had good players. To be a good coach, you must have some talent.
5. He had good assistants, especially Coach Sissy Anderson for 20 years. Basketball is fast paced and it takes another set of eyes to help watch 10 players playing at the same time.
6. He had competitive practices. This shows up time and again with great coaches.
7. He adapted to the changes of the game. One example: When my sister played in the early '70s, there were 6 players per team. There were 2 forwards, who could only play on the offensive half of the court. There were 2 defensive guards, who could only play on the defensive half of the court. And, there were 2 rovers, who could play anywhere on the court. So, the game was basically 4 on 4 on either side of the court.
8. He used psychology and knowledge of players as elements to use in motivating that particular player.
9. He loves Vidalia High School. There is no substitute for loyalty.
10. He has a VERY supportive wife! Barbara was there at games and supported coach, knowing he would be gone a lot.
VHS is very fortunate to have had Coach Reid! I wish him the best in his future endeavors!
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